Paul bought this book for the boys for Christmas. It is officially our FAVORITE children's book EVER! I can't tell you how many times we've tried to explain to our boys...
"Don't say mean things, it makes people
feel bad."
"It hurts mommy's
feelings when you don't obey."
After reading this book - they TOTALLY GOT IT!
The book shows how everyone is walking around with a "bucket" over their head. We can either FILL each other's buckets, or EMPTY them.
The bully on the playground has an almost empty bucket. Which explains why he's a bully.
We first read this book in the car on a road trip. We had a lot of time to say nice things to fill each other's buckets. My boys really got into it. I told them, saying "yes, ma-am" filled my bucket, so they KEPT SAYING IT!
"How full is your bucket" is everyday language in our home now. If you don't have this book for your kids - go get it!!! Or maybe even for a hubby! :)
Some things my boys have said after reading this book:
Wes - "Daddy took me to Waffle House this morning and it filled my bucket!"
Will - "Mom, when you lay down with me for a while before bed, it fills my bucket."
Will - (eating dinner at Stevie B's, we went around the table to say how full our buckets were that day)..."My bucket is already full, just being here with the family!"
Wes - (seeing mommy deal with an unfriendly person at walmart) "mommy her bucket is NOT full AT ALL."
10 things that
EMPTY my bucket:
1. My boys arguing.
2. A messy house.
3. If Paul and I are in a "funk".
4. Stress.
5. Not enough sleep.
6. Someone being mean to my kids.
7. Confrontations.
8. Feeling uncomfortable in my clothes/unhealthy.
9. Sick kids.
10. Feeling like I can't do everything I've committed to.
10 things that FILL my bucket (in no particular order):
1. Family time.
2. Time alone with God, me time.
3. Having a clean house.
4. Watching a good movie.
5. Exercise.
6. A sincere compliment.
7. Gifts, Gifts, Gifts! (even little itty bitty ones)
8. Hearing my boys or my husband belly laugh.
9. A trip or getaway.
10. Good food.